A question of becoming. To be who I am meant to be is far too much on one’s shoulders. What great mess this idea has made of us. You can never be anything other than the being as yourself. The only way in which oneself is grasped at in all its properties is to be completely negligent of all such properties. To search itself is to be lost. To be lost however is to be found. There is no such thing as a ‘more’ authentic self, merely a recognition of yourself as having the capacity for something on the horizon. This recognition of the possibility of change takes little. To go through the motions of change is not enough, however. To place oneself in totality within a space of expression is to have such a possibility of change, the freedom towards that change is beyond our scope of understanding. The question of whether you made an authentic choice; when one does make a choice, is not itself a question of consideration. As all choices in their existence are of an authentic possibility towards the world. We all have drives that ‘force our hand’ in our choices, we have impetuses which pushes us towards the things which we do in the world, whether these impetuses are correct is not of question. It is to be liberated at once from the mode of interaction between oneself and the world, to be encapsulated in it and understand the mechanisms which drive one towards decisions but to be unfiltered in this relationship, to have no such anxiety of whether one is oneself towards a world at large.
All decisions, however much it seems to urge us towards allowing all decisions and to remove the anxiety towards the outcomes of our choices would be to neglect our relationship in the mechanisms of interaction and possibilities. To be anxious about the future and things in the world is of a natural point to which a reflective response which itself constitutes a change. And now I think Heraclitus was absolutely right! There is no such thing as ‘From Nothing’ and neither was there something ‘that always was.’ What always was is change. Being towards this in totality is to take a step into the world. To be totally human.